When I was growing up, family traditions made Christmas special, and we still continue many of these traditions.
On Christmas Day, we always unwrap our gifts in the afternoon, after lunch. When I was a child, on Christmas morning I was occupied with gifts from the stockings that had been hung up the night before. These gifts were delivered by Mother Christmas, not Santa Claus. And our Christmas lunch was — and still is — vegetarian. No turkey in sight!
Every Sunday of Advent, we light a candle on the Advent wreath — four red candles in a wreath made from fir branches and holly, decorated with orange and cinnamon.
And when I was a child, on the night of December 5th, I would polish my shoes and leave them out in readiness for Saint Nicholas — the real predecessor of Santa Claus and the patron saint of children.
Today, December 6th, is Saint Nicholas’ Day and I would wake to find my shoes filled with goodies, little lebkuchen hearts in red foil and other small gifts. Magical!
These articles, Who is St. Nicholas? and Why St. Nicholas puts candy in boots and stole our hearts, explain more about this tradition. Saint Nicholas’ Day is widely celebrated in Europe, especially countries such as Germany and the Netherlands.
Legend has it that children who have been bad can expect to find a twig or coal in their shoes. Some years, I found a few pieces of coal outside on the path, where they had fallen out of St. Nicholas’ bag on his way to the next house. But I never received coal in my shoes!
Later in the month, we decorate the Christmas tree — a real tree that we bring into the house on Christmas Eve, much later than most people. Our family tradition is to keep the tree up for the twelve days of Christmas, no earlier, no later. On Twelfth Night, January 5th, the decorations must be taken down or else you should expect bad luck!
As well as the Christmas tree and Advent wreath to make the house look festive, my mother created a tableau of the Nativity. Every December, a blue cloth studded with stars formed the background, together with a blue ribbon with one star for each day leading up to Christmas. Cloth figures of Mary, Joseph, the three kings, and shepherds were set out in front of a stable filled with hay.
The last tradition in the festive season was Three Kings’ Day on January 6th. Figures of the three kings were set out on a simple table to mark the day. My favourite Christmas carol has always been We Three Kings.
What are your festive traditions? Do you unwrap your presents before or after lunch? Did St. Nicholas visit your house when you were a child?
Wow! You have so many great traditions! We celebrated Three Kings’ Day when I was little, but we don’t anymore. In typical Italian-American fashion, most of our other traditions involve food. 😉
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🙂 It’s nice to be able to look back and remember them, even if I’m too big for St. Nicholas and a Christmas stocking now.
Mmm, food is definitely an important part of Christmas. I love panettone and Christmas cake.
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Great traditions! We also put the tree up on Christmas Eve and took it down for Twelfth Night – I still think doing that makes Christmas more special than having all the decorations up for ages. I wonder if the shoe tradition might be the origin of the saying “little goody two-shoes”…?
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I agree. It does make it more special. 🙂 When I was little, my sister and I used to decorate the tree every Christmas Eve. But that tradition has faded now she has her own family.
Hmm, that’s an interesting thought. It seems quite probable.
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What lovely traditions! 🙂 I love the advent wreath. So beautiful and thanks for sharing…
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Thank you. 🙂 I’m glad you enjoyed the post.
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Loved reading about your family traditions! As Christmas is a Western holiday, I’ve always been interested in how other people celebrated it, given that my family isn’t culturally from the West. The few traditions we do have include putting up our dinky old fake tree (which is about as old as me!) and putting up the rag-tag bunch of ornaments we have (most of which were made when my sisters and I were in grade school…. wreaths made of pretzels with our photos in the middle, you know the kind). Oh and we ALWAYS open presents after lunch. 🙂 My sisters insist on being in their pajamas when that happens while my mom typically makes an effort to look nice for photos.
It’s wonderful to read your blog posts again, Grace. Apologies for being MIA but I’m planning to get to your email later today! Hope you have a wonderful weekend. 🙂
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Ah, family ornaments with memories attached are lovely, aren’t they? And I understand your sisters wanting to stay in their pajamas! I’m really looking forward to relaxing over the Christmas season too. 🙂
I got your email…will reply soon. 🙂
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Thank you for sharing your Christmas traditions! Just today I was thinking about how every family celebrates Christmas in different ways and it’s so neat to hear about other people’s traditions. We usually put our tree up after Thanksgiving and take it down shortly after Christmas or the New Year.
As for present opening, as a child, my siblings and I would open our stockings on Christmas morning and then open presents right afterward. We usually did all of this before we ate breakfast, haha. I can also remember being allowed to pick out one gift from underneath the tree on Christmas Eve that I was allowed to open. My siblings and I always enjoyed that and would sometimes exchange our gifts with each other on Christmas Eve, too.
We never did anything with Advent calendars or wreaths, nor did we celebrate Saint Nicholas’ Day, or Three Kings’ Day… but I totally wish we would have. I forgot how much I love the We Three Kings Christmas carol. It’s beautiful 🙂
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A Christmas Eve gift sounds fun!
I loved the excitement of hanging my stocking up on Christmas Eve.
In fact, many countries in Europe (including Italy, Spain, Greece, Poland, Lithuania…) have the main celebration on Christmas Eve rather than Christmas Day. I like learning about other cultural traditions too. 🙂
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I love Christmas traditions, they are what make the holiday so special to me. I love all that you do during the season. When we’ve spent Christmas in Austria, the hotel where we stay doesn’t put up their tree until Christmas eve as well.
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Thank you. 🙂 I agree — Christmas traditions definitely make this time of year memorable.
Austria reminds me… I forgot to mention lebkuchen in my post — little spiced cookies with a gingerbread and apricot jam filling, coated in chocolate. They are another festive tradition for me. Perhaps you have tried them on your travels?
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Yes, they are delicious.
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I’m sad that quite a few of the Christmas traditions have been left behind. Christmas seems to end on Boxing day now, and the remainder of the Christmastide celebrations no longer marked in many of our homes.
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I like leaving the decorations up until Twelfth Night. 🙂 As we re-adjust and get back to normal after the holidays, it makes the first days of January just a little more sparkly.
Thanks for commenting.
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